world mental health day 2018  

Today, 10th October 2018, marks this year's World Mental Health Day. In honour of this I wanted to share a piece that I have written which attempts to describe what it feels like to live alongside grief, still years on, and what happens when the waves come. I hope that this may help others to know that they aren't alone and that despite the painful moments, there is still beauty in the world and most of the time life is great. 

 

 

 

 

A sun drenched day, full of promise

The morning coffee and a warm lap from a furry friend

Your favourite dress and new boots that have just worn in 

A good hair day and when that eye flick is just right

You smile, you chat, you laugh 

The makings of a good day

 

But then the wave comes…

 

A punch in the chest followed by a hand gripping at your throat

A feeling of spiralling out of control

The world is not safe anymore, and you will never see it's beauty again

An overwhelming sensation of deep depression and sheer panic.

 

You breathe deeply, clutching at your chest, your hands trembling and eyes filling up.

 

Then….. you are out of sight of that place that holds the memory

You slowly start to calm, your pulse gradually dropping

You remind yourself that you have made it this far

That the world still has some beauty and there is plenty left to see and explore

That you can do this, and it's ok to move forwards.

 

These are the waves. Unexpected moments that pull you from your seat and throw you into the darkness. Be it a few seconds, a few minutes, hours or days.  

They come and go, ebb and flow, and always take you by surprise. 

This is how it feels when the waves come. 

 

Even though time has passed, the tears don't come everyday and you are back to work…..doesn't mean that you are back to 'normal'. This is a new normal that you have to adjust to. A new life trying to build around a gapping hole that has been left in your heart. The roots are there, but the branches have to re-build, and it takes time. 

The waves I don't think will ever leave me, you just need to try to be prepared, ready to take the hit when the next one comes, and then move forwards again.

 

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pennies and feathers

A new botanical British beauty brand, that was created from a love story.

Our aim is to bring beauty back into our customers lives. Whether it is your skin that needs revitalising, your senses or your spirit.

Everything from the beautiful illustrations on the packaging, to the tactile glass containers and the wonderful relaxing scents have been designed to bring you a sense of beauty and calm.

 

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